I’ll be the first to admit that I am an advocate for getting married. While there are exceptions to every rule, and we need to honor those, I believe that the majority of men and women should be married, should want to be married, should seek a mate; someone they can make a life with. But that having been said, if you need, if you’ve got to have a mate, if you’ve got to have a guy, if you’ve got to have a girl, if you just can’t be happy, if you’re miserable, if your life is just incomplete and you think that’s going to do it for you, you have a loser’s mentality.
Here’s the most important thing you can do if you’re looking to get married and be married happily over a lifetime. Focus every single day on:
Number one, being happy and filled with joy. And number two, being healthy and whole, emotionally, physically, psychologically, and most of all, spiritually. Bottom line – focus on being a whole, healthy, happy, joyful person having fun. And all of a sudden, you will begin to magnetize that same kind of person in the opposite sex.
You want a happy, healthy, joyful, fully functioning man who has a job and the where-with-all to take care of you. And men, you want a healthy, happy, kick-butt confident woman; smart, strong, good, and compassionate. You put those two kinds of happy, whole, healthy, joy-filled people together and you have the prescription not just for a happy marriage, but for a marriage that lives at the level of fun.